Men and women Chias opinion on the episode from 092123

Men and women: Chia’s opinion on the episode from 09/21/23

As a comment on the episode of men and women Today I have to make a few premises. Premise number one: I’m telling you, when you see the vibe in the studio and on social media, you most likely won’t agree with what you’re reading. Unfortunately, even though I already know that my thoughts will be unpopular, they remain.

Premise number two: Those who are born round will not die round. And that applies to both Federico Nicotera for that Carola Carpanelli. We left her a few months ago, very impulsive, often immature and not inclined to conform to the wishes of others, and we found her the same again. And he was self-centered, evasive and incapable of the slightest self-criticism, and he remained self-centered, evasive and incapable of the slightest self-criticism.

And considering that I believe BOTH were wrong and that BOTH have their fair share of faults in this whole matter, I don’t see how you can praise him and destroy them. He is NOT a saint and she is NOT a demon, I think. They both made their mistakes, and to be honest, it was already clear last year that they had two characters that were difficult to reconcile. The only difference between the two is that she recognizes her limitations and admits them to everyone, but he doesn’t. He’s never done that as long as we’ve known him. For seven months on the throne it was ALWAYS her who was wrong, ALWAYS her who was absolutely wrong, ALWAYS her who stepped on the shit. He NEVER admitted that he exaggerated or made mistakes. NEVER.

Although she was aware of her poor oratory skills, which had always been evident in the fact that she had difficulty explaining herself to everyone, she left the studio, led by the brave ones Gianni SpertiHe massacred them EVERY TIME. And today he followed this path too.

“It’s right to ask yourself, I understand that I have a very strong character, so I say… ‘Have I made a mistake somewhere?’? But based on what you’ve learned, I say no. My mistake was coming here with the goal of finding love, I took it too seriously!” he said Nicotera Today. His mistake is being so damn perfect, you know how? He didn’t make any mistakes. The only thing he admits is that he took it “too seriously,” Starlet. He’s not fallible, let alone he’s just a poor, misunderstood romantic hero!

Definitely the one from Carola It was NOT crazy love, otherwise she certainly wouldn’t have given up at the first difficulties, that’s how we are. But what if she was really just going for the hype of the early days that she had to move and turn her life upside down? Come on, come on. All they had to do was follow the example of most couples before them (who only saw each other when there was a guest or an interview coming up, and then each at their own home until the breakup was announced on social media) and off they went , Right?

If the Carpanelli She packed her bags and moved to Rome, obviously for some reason Federico he felt it. Then, as he lived in everyday life and got to know himself better, that “something” didn’t become the story of his life, that’s all. Of course, running away from home like a thief at any moment without even saying goodbye to the person who welcomed her into the family was a BIG move. But she recognized it herself and apologized.

Then again, not only did he not apologize for spending ONE WEEK arguing about a man’s insignificant following on social media (and no, someone warned him). Sperti that it is not true that “all men would be upset by persecution!”, that thank God there are those who manage to give the right meaning to certain nonsense), but there was NO PROBLEM today to suggest that She did it Who knows what happened during the throne (which then either you say and say anything, or the vulgar insinuation “Ask her if she behaved well in the seven months on the throne?” Maria!” You can keep it to yourself…) still talk about the stir-fries they made when they saw each other again.

Except he lacked the sensitivity to deliver such a private detail that didn’t change the story, but with what courage Gianni Was he pointing the finger at her for “being a bit superficial” when you went to bed with her, and not at him, who, even though he had assumed nothing had changed, still insisted on her to take to bed with you? You’re so in love, little boy, that you don’t want to dance in the studio so you don’t fall into it again, but you still didn’t avoid the little walk.

The truth is that Federico He is very good at WORDS. He knows how to sell himself really well, especially compared to Carola who – unlike him – falls silent when he goes to the ball. It’s a shame that all these wonderful “I won’t deny you that I still have feelings for her!”, “I want her to have a nice memory!” and “I would make the choice again a thousand times, I “I’m happy with who she was.” I thought he was someone you could grow old with. I am romantic, Maria“What do I have to do!” What we heard today adds the FACTS.

And the facts show that he did NOTHING to prevent another foreseeable massacre. In fact, as always, he really put in the hundred. “This situation means that one becomes the executioner and the other becomes the victim, I didn’t want that to happen. The reason why I didn’t want to come was exactly this!” said the pious soul today. But first, if he really wanted to avoid today’s massacre, he could have just stayed home, right? That the Damned Did he put a gun to his head to force him? I do not think so. And I doubt that Carola She could have made a comparison herself. But then to hear him say that she “came here solely for your personal gain” even though we know full well how they ALWAYS supported and undermined him in that studio was EMBARRASSING.

Not to mention, I haven’t heard him say HALF an appreciation for the woman he was supposedly still with in over 40 minutes. On the contrary, she did not hesitate to describe her as the one who made fun of him for seven months, who never loved him, who only thinks about herself, who longed for a manager (when she then finds out that he is the one). was correct). who spent a month looking for it), that he just wanted to win (nice trophy, such an artichoke actually!) and that as soon as the hype was over, he ran away. And luckily he still has feelings for her, er, imagine what he would have said if he didn’t have them. A gentleman indeed.

They both made mistakes, I said. But between those who apologize and those who instead delight in exposing those “our tails” that they said IN WORDS they wanted to protect (and only because they are aware that they are the whole Studio on your side that you like to win easily). !) doesn’t exist. For me it’s just a comparison. That’s all.

Video from the episode: Full episode – Maria: “Manuela, you know that Michele…” – Silvio and the “no” to Nunzia – Gianni: “Silvio, I didn’t like what you said!” – Carola and Federico: the animated confrontation