Wife who caught her 15-year-old husband cheating reveals the signs yours may have too – and the clues you might be the ‘other woman’
- A mom has revealed the top ten signs your partner is “definitely” cheating on you
- She hired a private detective to catch her 15-year-old partner having an affair
- The woman she was was suddenly glued to his phone and always in the gym
- Other signs included not wanting to have sex and showing no interest in your life
A woman whose partner has had an affair for 15 years has revealed the telltale signs you might be cheating too.
The anonymous woman told Mamamia there are 10 signs your partner is “definitely” cheating on you.
The mother had to hire a private detective to finally catch her husband, the father of her children, having an affair after he repeatedly denied it.
A woman has revealed signs her partner is cheating on her after catching her husband having an affair. She said he suddenly got glued to his phone and changed his notification settings
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- Being defensive over trifles 191 votes
- Sudden focus on her looks and weight 308 votes
- Regular late “work nights” 313 votes
- New music or language terms they didn’t use before 123 votes
She said she “put up with” her husband’s changing behavior and would believe the “many, many excuses” he gave her, but she knew in her gut something was wrong.
After struggling to get the truth out of her husband, the mother hired a private detective who found evidence of his infidelity through some CCTV footage.
She said the investigator’s attitude was her “lifeline” that helped her regain her power, kick out her husband and be free from the stress she was in due to her partner’s secrecy and hostility.
The mother listed the signs she later realized were clues to her husband’s cheating, who started going to the gym more often.
10 signs your partner is “definitely” cheating on you
1. You start going to the gym a lot
2. Your underwear gets an update
3. Your entire appearance will be overhauled
4. Mobile phone habits are changing like being on WhatsApp all the time, sticking to your hand “like glue”, turning off the “Last Seen” function and keeping the password secret
5. The snoring suddenly stops
6. You begin to cut yourself out of your friendship group activities, you avoid your mutual friends and your “work events” increase
7. Not answering the phone when they’re out
8. You come home and smell like perfume
9. They don’t want to touch you, be touched by you, or have sex with you
10. They no longer show interest in your life or share their life with you
Source: Mamamia
She admitted frequent visits to the gym might not in themselves indicate anything suspicious, but along with everything else on the list, “might require further investigation.”
The woman said her other half’s “daggy underwear” got an update and there’s been a “big change” in how much he cared about his appearance.
One of their biggest red flags was how much a partner’s phone habits change when they enter into a secret relationship.
She said her husband is “constantly” on his phone, takes it everywhere and never takes his eyes off it, and while he wasn’t a huge copywriter before, WhatsApp is suddenly his “new lifeline.”
The anonymous author said her husband’s wardrobe got an “update” of his shoes, dresses and even his underwear as he started to care more about his appearance
Key signs that you are the other woman or man
* Appointments are spontaneous and there are no long-term plans
* Most of your phone calls take place during the day
* Evening correspondence will be via text message and delays in replies will occur
* You’ve probably never been to her house or seen family or friends
* You don’t go to venues near her home
* You will probably pay with cash most of the time
* They will become defensive if you question them too much
The mother said his notification setting had changed so he no longer had message previews and he had turned off the feature that allowed contacts to see when he was “last online” so she couldn’t tell when he was using WhatsApp would have.
The man also underwent throat surgery to stop his snoring without consulting or telling his wife and began cutting himself out of friendship groups and avoiding mutual friends while work-related social events increased “enormously”.
The sign the mother said “requires the most therapy” to get over is that her husband suddenly avoided all intimacy with her, from small touches to sex.