April is the season of new beginnings. The Sun and Mercury are both in Aries, inspiring new ways to think about relationships, including the realm of forgiveness, especially for three zodiac signs who have been dealing with enemies for quite some time.
When we have a lunar Venus sextile, we have a choice: forgive and let go, or grab so hard our fingers break. When we hold on to pain, especially pain that comes in the form of people, we give that pain the power to grow.
If left unattended, this pain force can take over and ruin our lives. If we surrender our power to the memory of someone who wronged us, we might as well consider ourselves members of the undead. Because living in a grudge is not living. Forgiveness restores life, and that’s where we need to be. We owe it to ourselves in this life that we only have to experience this one…at least for now.
The lunar sextile Venus is the transit that ultimately represents forgiveness, especially in love affairs gone wrong. This is the time of year when we weigh the value of holding on to someone who has clearly only caused us grief. Whether it’s an ex or a family member you’ve had bad blood with, there’s a very good chance you’ll forgive them during this astrological transit.
There is no joy or glamor in holding on to an enemy. There is no such thing as a “great story,” nor does anyone want to hear that great story even if there was one. You’ve held on to hate and coldness for too long, and even you know it’s true. You owe it to yourself. It’s time to let go
Starting April 3, 2022, it’s time to forgive your enemies Cancer, Leo, and Pisces.
And if you are one of them, here is your horoscope on why Sunday’s lunar sextile Venus encourages you to keep going.
1. Cancer
(June 21 – July 22)
It took you a very long time to realize that instead of taking your enemy with you for the rest of your life, it might be best for you to forgive your enemy. This war will bring you nothing and not only will it make you a hostile person, but it will also become boring.
You’re not even sure if they’re still out there, living and doing what they do. That person you’ve held onto, who you care about, and who you’ve called “enemy” — that’s someone who doesn’t even know your name anymore, but you’ve given them celebrity status in your lifetime.
Suddenly you feel like a fool and Moon sextile Venus is there to let you know this doesn’t have to last forever. You can forgive them and still have a life. Try it, Cancer. Try to forgive that “enemy” of yours. look what happens Take the chance.
2. lion
(July 23 – August 22)
Nobody holds grudges like you. You’re the king of making statements like “You’re dead to me.” If only you didn’t keep her so vivid in your mind after claiming all the dramatic comebacks and vicious statements. Maybe it’s time to really let that person go. You can’t just say, “To me you’re dead” and keep carrying a torch for her. Especially when so much energy has to be burned to keep up your level of hate and contempt.
You really are too much sometimes, Leo, and in the end it’s you who gets hurt, even though you keep showing people that you’re the biggest badass there is. You’re not a badass, you’re an anxious person hiding behind a pretentious facade. Let the moon sextile Venus help you here. Let go of that person who is so dead to you but is still fully alive and taking over your entire universe.
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3. Pisces
(February 19 – March 10)
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The truth is, you really never want to say the words “I forgive you,” because doing so would mean allowing the unforgivable to happen without punishment. Well, unfortunately that’s how things go sometimes, Pisces.
It really is best for us to acknowledge the damage and not let it become our life. If you have a problem with someone in your life, just let it go. Yes, these words are difficult to live by, but they are not impossible. You’ve spent so much time hating someone, not forgiving them, not letting them sneak into the past where they belong… it’s time to let them go. Call it forgiveness or call it throwing out the trash; either way, it’s the same. You don’t have to honor and celebrate your trash. You have to get rid of it. That’s called forgiveness.
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