Reese Witherspoon and husband Jim Toth reportedly lived separate lives for months prior to their divorce, which was fueled by the actress’ demanding schedule, which earned her a reputation as one of the busiest women in Hollywood.
The star announced their divorce on Friday, just two days before their 12-year wedding anniversary, but she and Toth hadn’t been seen together in public in months.
And insiders revealed to RadarOnline that the couple would go “without interaction for days” in the run-up to their split, which some put down to the actress’ busy lifestyle.
The duo, who shared 10-year-old son Tennessee, reportedly only spoke to talk about their family, while Toth regularly missed important events in her life. Friends of the actress revealed that his behavior had “raised eyebrows” long before their split.
“Jim is hardly ever with her,” a source told the outlet. ‘It’s always like that’.
Witherspoon’s hectic schedule was reportedly a driving factor in their recent divorce. She can be seen on the set of Netflix romantic comedy Your Place Or Mine.
The Latest: Reese Witherspoon and husband Jim Toth are divorcing after nearly 12 years of marriage
Shock! The 47-year-old film star shared the news via her Instagram on Friday afternoon – days before their 12th wedding anniversary; seen together on January 5, 2020
Though they said they’d enjoyed “many wonderful years together” when announcing their split, insiders also claimed the marriage has steadily become platonic.
“There’s no major scandal or drama, just two people who have essentially become co-parents and no longer have any real romantic feelings for each other,” a source told PageSix.
They added that the Oscar-winning actress “once liked the fact that[Toth]was just a solid, dependable, stable guy,” which she’s committed to after “years of sh*t with her first husband, Ryan Phillippe.” “ attracted.
Witherspoon, 47, shared the news via her Instagram on Friday afternoon in a joint statement from her and Jim, 52 days before their 12th wedding anniversary.
“We have some personal news to share… It was with great care and thought that we made the difficult decision to divorce,” the mother-of-three wrote.
“We have enjoyed so many wonderful years together and move forward with deep love, kindness and mutual respect for all that we have created together.”
The couple continued in their statement, “Our number one priority is our son and our entire family as we navigate this next chapter. These matters are never easy and very personal.”
“We really appreciate everyone’s respect for our family’s privacy, like this time – Reese and Jim,” she concluded.
Four months before their split, Witherspoon posted the last picture of herself and Toth together, celebrating Christmas with their son Tennessee, 10, and their two children from their first marriage, Ava, 23, and Deacon, 19.
Amid claims the two had grown apart, a source told People magazine after the news broke that Reese and Jim’s split was “amicable.”
“They really are best friends and it’s such an amicable decision. They are so committed to being parents together. They’re investing in their whole family and making this as smooth as possible for everyone,” the insider said.
Reese shared snaps with Jim in December 2022 as they enjoyed the holiday season with their family.
In July 2022, Reese shared photos of himself with Jim on Instagram to celebrate his birthday and captioned the set, “Happy Birthday to my sweet husband JT!
Don’t know anyone who loves the Tour de France / road cycling / @arsenal / @nashvillesc / @steelers….oh and GOLF…basically loves all sports more than YOU. Love you very much!’
They also celebrated their 11th wedding anniversary in March 2022 on Instagram: “Happy Anniversary JT!! 11 years of adventure, love and laughter. I feel so lucky to share this wonderful life with you.’
In 2012, Reese recalled their first meeting in a chat with Elle magazine; The sweet reunion took place at a friend’s house after she split from actor Jake Gyllenhaal, 42.
Family: Reese and Jim, who married March 26, 2011, have one son together – Tennessee James, 10; She has two children from her first marriage to Ryan Phillippe: Ava, 23, and Deacon, 19
Three months ago: Reese shared snaps with Jim in December 2022 as they enjoyed the holiday season with their family
Just as they were: The former lovebirds were spotted in March 2022 in honor of their 11th wedding anniversary last year
Red Carpet: “We have enjoyed so many wonderful years together and we move forward with deep love, kindness and mutual respect for all that we have created together; The couple was spotted at the Vanity Fair Oscars party in 2017
The way they were: “We have some personal news to share… We have made the difficult decision to divorce, with great care and thought,” the mother-of-three wrote
Throwback: In 2020, Reese celebrated her 10-year marriage with a snap from her wedding anniversary
“It happened out of the blue. This really drunk guy hit on me, made such a fool of himself and yelled at me. He said, ‘You don’t know me.’ And I thought, ‘Yeah, I know. I do not know you!’ she told the magazine.
‘Jim came over and said, ‘Please excuse my boyfriend. He just broke up with someone.’
“Jim was a really good friend who got him out of that situation. That’s just the way he is, a really good person.’
She has also told People that she loved him because he was a “wonderful organizer” and “a great leader” who “knows how to bring people together” and remains “patient” and “funny” with kids.
A year earlier, she told Elle UK that she was surprised she’d fallen in love with Jim: “It’s an exciting feeling. “You’re the one.” And it’s a surprise. You know, I’m surprised when people aren’t related to see my films. And you’re surprised someone wants to be with you because, boy, I have a lot of quirks and wrinkles.”
The way they were: Reese and Ryan first met at their 21st birthday party, which took place in March 1997; seen on August 24, 1998
In Character: They starred together in the 1999 film Cruel Intentions; Ryan and Reese with co-stars Sarah Michelle Gellar and Selma Blair
Reese and Jake dated for two years before splitting in December 2009.
She met Jim in January 2010; They became engaged in December 2010 and married on March 26, 2011 in Ojai.
They welcomed their son Tennessee on September 27, 2012.
In April 2013, Reese and Jim were arrested in Atlanta, Georgia, after being pulled over by police for veering in and out of their lane on suspicion of drunk driving, according to Variety.
They allegedly crossed into the oncoming lane and were then pulled over, with Reese being agitated by the officer, leading to her arrest.
She was arrested after repeated instructions from the arresting police officer by not staying in the car and verbally addressing him, according to the outlet.
The police report on Variety said that Reese should hang beans out the window and say she didn’t think I was a real cop. I told Mrs Witherspoon to sit on her bum and be quiet.’
After Jim was handcuffed, Reese exited the car, despite being told to get back in the car.
The report said she told him she was a “US citizen” and could “stand on American soil.”
When the officer tried to arrest her, she fought back and Jim told her to calm down.
‘Woman. Witherspoon asked, “Do you know my name?” I replied, “No, I don’t need to know your name.” I then added, “Right now.” Mrs. Witherspoon declared: ‘You’re about to find out who I am.” the report reads.
‘Woman. Witherspoon also stated, “You’re going to be on the national news.” I told Mrs Witherspoon that was all right.’
She did not deny her charge – disorderly conduct (disability) – and paid a fine; Jim pleaded guilty, was sentenced to community service, a year’s probation and an alcohol education program.
In a statement, Reese told Us Weekly: “I’ve clearly had one drink too many and I’m deeply embarrassed for what I said. It was definitely a scary situation and I was scared for my husband but that’s no excuse. I was disrespectful to the officer who was just doing his job. The words I used that night definitely don’t reflect who I am. I have nothing but respect for the police and I am very sorry for my behavior.’
Mugshot: In April 2013, Reese and Jim were arrested in Atlanta, Georgia after they were pulled over by police for going in and out of their lane, according to Variety
Reese and her first husband, Ryan Phillippe, met at her 21st birthday party, held in March 1997; They starred together in the 1999 film Cruel Intentions.
The stars got engaged in December 1998 and married on June 5, 1999 in South Carolina; Reese and Ryan welcomed Ava in 1999 and Deacon in 2003.
Reese and Ryan announced their separation in 2006, their marriage was legally dissolved in 2007, and their divorce finalized in 2008.
Ryan is also father to daughter Kai Knapp, 11, with ex-girlfriend Alexis Knapp.