Ana Hickmann Case: How Do You Escape An Abusive Relationship? 9 Signs You Need To Know

Ana Hickmann was attacked by her husband

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An abusive relationship is characterized by a power imbalance, excessive control, and harmful behavior on the part of one partner. Unfortunately, attacks against women occur again and again: almost four in ten women have suffered violence at home and live in abusive and toxic relationships, regardless of their personal and professional success or status.

It is not uncommon for women, despite being successful and educated, to experience what we call “property aggression,” a form of domestic violence that involves the control, destruction or appropriation of a person’s assets and financial resources Resources. A person usually in an abusive relationship has a significant impact on the victim’s life, leading to negative emotional, economic and social consequences.

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Understand the Ana Hickmann case:

+ Ana Hickmann’s husband publishes note and denies headbutting his wife

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+ Ana Hickmann is caught and files a complaint against her husband for assault

Many women who experience domestic violence take the time to report it, many out of fear of physical or emotional retaliation from the perpetrator, or out of feelings of shame and guilt. It’s not hard to find women who believe they are responsible for their partner’s abusive behavior. There is a huge lack of awareness, they do not realize that they are in an abusive relationship because they are not aware of the different forms of abuse and its effects. They may believe that abusive behavior is normal or that they deserve to be treated this way.

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Emotional dependence

There are other very strong motivations that lead them to remain hostage in such a relationship and choose to stay in that relationship for the good of their children. Many women fear losing custody and know that their abusive partner could use this to control or punish them if they leave the relationship. They are also concerned about the safety of their children and believe that if they remain in the relationship, they will be better able to protect their children from direct abuse from the abusive partner. There are people who are financially dependent on the care of their children. Not to mention maternal guilt and responsibility, as there is social and cultural pressure to keep the family intact.

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What also keeps them in the relationship is fear and emotional dependence, threats or retaliation. Additionally, emotional dependency can be a barrier to leaving a toxic relationship. Even low selfesteem issues make a person believe that they do not deserve something or a better partner, which leads them to tolerate abusive behavior. Even believing that the partner will improve his behavior develops rejection and hope for change and thus has difficulty recognizing the seriousness of the relationship.

An abusive partner can psychologically manipulate and control the person, thereby preventing them from leaving the relationship. Many people act contradictory in social and professional environments, so that family and friends never notice an aggressive attitude.

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To protect your emotional and physical health, it’s important to be aware of the signs of an abusive relationship. Here are some ways to find out if you are in an abusive relationship:

Excessive Control: Your partner tries to control what you do, who you talk to, where you go, and even what you wear. They may use threats, intimidation, or manipulation to maintain control over you.

Isolation: They attempt to separate you from friends and family and limit your access to a support system. They may try to convince you that they are the only people who truly care about you.

Emotional Manipulation: You use manipulative tactics to undermine your selfesteem, such as: E.g., constant insults, public humiliation, or making you feel guilty for things that are not your responsibility.

Physical violence or threats: This is a clear sign of abuse. If your partner uses or threatens to use physical violence against you, it is important to seek help immediately.

Excessive Jealousy: They exhibit unhealthy jealousy, control your interactions with other people, or constantly accuse you of cheating for no apparent reason. They may try to invade your privacy, for example by checking your cell phone or email without your permission.

Financial Isolation: Controlling your finances, restricting your access to money, or requiring you to account for all of your spending. This can lead to you becoming financially dependent on them.

Disregarding your boundaries: Your partner ignores your physical, emotional, or sexual boundaries and forces you to do things you don’t want to do or are uncomfortable with.

Constant feelings of guilt: They make you feel like you are responsible for all the problems in the relationship, even if it is not true. They may attribute their actions or behavior to their own abusive behavior.

Extreme mood swings: Your partner may fluctuate between extreme affection and insult. These behavioral changes can make it difficult for you to predict how your child will react in certain situations.

It is important to remember that no woman is responsible for the violence she suffers. It is important to provide victims with a safe and supportive environment by offering emotional support, encouragement, and information about available resources such as shelters, hotlines, and counseling services. We all have responsibility and must not remain silent. In an argument between husband and wife, we have to use the spoon. Message: Call 180 (Women’s Service Center).

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Rosangela Casseano, psychologist, cognitive behavioral therapist, CEO of PsicoPass www.psicopass.com.br

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