Bela Gil revealed the reason why her 19year marriage to businessman João Paulo Demasi ended. In the video program “Desculpa Something”, hosted by Tati Bernardi, the chef also revealed the harassment suffered by her exhusband after the divorce and the decision to open the relationship.
There are no hard feelings for Bela. “I met him when I was 15 years old. He was in France doing his masters and I followed him. I was already 17 years old then. Our story is very wonderful, very beautiful. He’s this wonderful Greek god, a very spectacular person. I went after him, we stayed and never parted again. This lasted 19 years. He is a central person in my life, he is my driving force. Without JP I wouldn’t be doing a third of what I’ve done. He’s this performance machine,” he described.
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During the conversation, Gil said that the breakup was motivated by his desire to see each other again. “We went through a different process. I went through heartbreak in the marriage and he went through heartbreak outside. So their time was different. It is difficult because we were created to strive for this place that we have reached. And letting that go takes courage. I looked at myself [e falava]: “Bela, you are a successful, professionally recognized woman, you have two children.” “A Greek God by your side, partner, a super healthy, nontoxic relationship.” I had to have a lot of courage to say: ‘That is not what I want,’” he recalls.
“One of the reasons for the breakup was the desire to find myself. I missed myself. I wanted to come home and not have to share. I decide what I eat. It was the first time in my life that I put myself in the foreground. I make my wishes, my desires. But it’s hard to admit it,” he admitted.
Despite the breakup, Gil and JP remain very close. “We are an excouple who get along very well. We continue to have a partnership in the workplace, we are partners in the restaurant, we have other businesses. And I think that’s wonderful. “We also have two children,” he listed. She emphasized that the businessman was not ready to start another family.
Harassment of exhusband
“It is difficult for him to diversify his affections now because women think he is a millionaire, super rich and has great potential as a father. But he doesn’t want that now. He says: “I already have a family.” He wants to enjoy it. They just want to pursue a prince charming. And I say that the women who arrive have to thank me. I took some raw coal, polished it and it became this diamond,” Bela joked. Regard:
Open relationship
Bela Gil also noted that it was something natural for her and JP to open up when they were still together. “I was criticized a lot. But my relationship with JP happened naturally like that. And I am a person who lacks possessions and jealousy. That makes it a lot easier in this place. We said, “We’re closed here.” Because you’ve always been able to do whatever you want, with whoever you want, whenever you want. “It was like that from the beginning,” he revealed.
Gilberto Gil’s daughter emphasized what was relevant for her in a relationship. “When a person is with me, when he is whole, out of love, respect, commitment, desire, affection, then that satisfies me.” If you have traveled, want to go out and I don’t feel like it, that’s okay. I was always more of a homebody and he was more of a party person. I think this openness gives the couple a very strong sense of security,” he said.
“Why are people so hungry for this topic?” Tati wanted to know. “I think it’s because a lot of people want it and can’t do it. And of course the first thing that comes is denial, because there is this will, but there is also moralism. Then you see it and immediately refute it. But deep down there is a desire to experiment,” said Bela. Checkout:
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