New Month; new you. That’s the main feeling behind what’s going on astrologically today, December 1, 2023, especially for three zodiac signs that put themselves first in a relationship.
The three zodiac signs that come first in a relationship are Taurus, Virgo and Sagittarius.
There is a strong feeling that accompanies us today and lets us know unequivocally that we need change and that we must achieve it.
We must be the agent that drives us into action. This day is not about stepping on others’ toes to push an agenda, but about achieving something and expressing the urge to put ourselves first.
When we have the transit of Mercury in Capricorn, and this is a very assertive, very specific astrological event, it changes the way we look at love.
For three zodiac signs, December 1, 2023 is the day we realize that we are the source of power behind our actions and that if we really want something to happen, we must admit that we are the ones who make it happen it’s so. Today we take the initiative in love and romance.
We may need to put ourselves first during Mercury in Capricorn, and that doesn’t mean we put our loved ones second per se, but it might feel that way to them.
That’s the tricky thing about this transit and this day: we know what WE have to do, and we’re not doing it to make others feel bad, but… they might do it. In December, we put love first and grapple with the consequences of this kind of bravery, should any arise.
The three zodiac signs that will put themselves first in a relationship on December 1, 2023:
1. Taurus
(April 20 – May 20)
You’ve already decided, and now that it’s the last month of the year, on this first day of December, you know what you have to do. When it comes to your love life, you need to put yourself first. You have made it clear to your partner that you need to achieve certain things in your life and that he can either come with you or be left behind. You’re not sure what you’re going to choose, but you know what you have to do.
During Mercury’s transit in Capricorn, you’ll find that it’s easier than you think to make a decision and “dare” to do something that could jeopardize romance. You know that you love your partner. You also know that your life is at stake too, and when it comes to survival, you will do what you have to do because so much of “survival” to you means “luck.” You don’t feel like you’re here on earth to be unhappy.
So if you’re trying to build a happy life, tell your partner clearly, “Come with me, or wish me well in my future journey.” You leave it to them, and on December 1st, that’s totally fine with you . You don’t feel responsible for that person’s reaction, nor do you feel like you have to persuade them to join you. You will do what you have to do and you will feel good about positioning yourself as “number one.”
2. Virgo
(August 23 – September 22)
Like many people, you see the first day of the month as an opportunity to change in the days ahead. There’s nothing like the first day to make a resolution that gives you over thirty days to put it into action. On this day, December 1, 2023, you are inspired to own your feelings, and some of the things you have been feeling are based on the idea that you need to put yourself first in this relationship is relevant.
You’ve always been very diplomatic when it came to sharing and sharing, and your partnership went smoothly…as long as you didn’t falter. During today’s transit, Mercury in Capricorn, you’ll want to rock this boat. However, for you as a Virgo, this is quite easy. Your mode is verbal, and on this day, December 1, 2023, you will let your mouth do the work that puts you in first position.
You are more than happy to be with your partner forever if that is your destiny. You now know that things need to change, at least to some extent, because if not, you will feel oppressed. You are oppressed, you are not a friend and you do not let things “sit” inside you for long. Today is one of those days to let it out. You have to make sure that your partner knows something important about you, and that way you put yourself first when it comes to love.
3. Sagittarius
(November 22nd – December 21st)
During Mercury’s transit in Capricorn, you will be very excited by the idea of sharing something important with your romantic partner. You’ve realized that you sometimes hold back and that holding back isn’t really in your temperament. You don’t like to lie or leave out details to make another person feel more comfortable with you, and on December 1, 2023, you will be okay with that.
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What’s happening today is that you finally feel like “the real you” is coming out, and even though you’ve always been open and honest, you’re not happy about keeping it from your partner. You may feel like they’re not ready to accept you as you are, and that’s why you’ve held back from expressing yourself authentically. On this day, December 1, 2023, while Mercury is in Capricorn, you will know that you have no choice. You have to be free to be yourself.
Mercury in Capricorn strengthens love and makes you feel like maybe it’s really about putting yourself above your partner, and while that might not be what you want to do at any other time, you feel like it is is your only option today.
You really have to do this yourself. You need to explain who you are to your romantic partner and take advantage of this opportunity. You know that if you don’t put yourself first in this regard, this won’t work in some ways. The chances of success are great, Sagittarius. No fear.
Ruby Miranda interprets I Ching, tarot, runes and astrology. She gives private readings and has worked as an intuitive reader for over 20 years.