- A woman has revealed her fiancé added a sinister condition to their prenuptial agreement
- He wants her to guarantee sex a certain number of times per week
- She posted it on Reddit, horrifying users
A prenuptial agreement is not uncommon in modern marriages – but one man's very unusual provision in his prenuptial agreement has left people in an uproar.
The bizarre marriage note was revealed by the man's angry fiancée, who expressed her horror at her future husband's demand in a recent post on the Reddit thread “Am I The A**hole.”
She explained that in addition to the financial terms, her partner wanted to include a clause in the marriage contract requiring her to guarantee a certain number of sexes with him each week.
“I honestly can't believe I'm asking this but my boyfriend got so mad I feel a little crazy now,” the 34-year-old woman wrote, before sharing more details about why her fiancé was like this decided to add the advance requirement.
She said that before she started dating, her fiancé – also 34 – had a terrible marriage that “ended in a dead bedroom.”
In Reddit's “Am I the Asshole” thread, the fiancée shared her concerns about some unconventional provisions in his prenup (stock image)
“He is determined never to return to this life,” she wrote. “Got it, I think that sucked for him.”
Although she had no problem with his concerns, it was what he wanted to add next to their already existing marriage that shocked her.
“He wants a prenup and he literally writes in the prenup that we're going to have sex x number of times a week or I get absolutely nothing in the divorce,” she shared.
“I had already agreed to a 50/50 arrangement of the marital assets and we keep what we got married with,” explained the unnamed woman.
“That’s not enough for him.” He wants me to “prove” that I won’t stop having sex with him in the future.
“I tell him I can't prove the future, and proving something in writing doesn't prove it,” she wrote.
After expressing concern to her fiancé, he accused her of having a “guilty conscience.”
The woman said he responded to her by saying, “If she's so sure it won't happen, then what's the problem?”
Users were horrified by the sinister addition to the prenuptial agreement and thousands of people commented on the post
“But for me, it makes me feel like a sex slave rather than a beloved wife or partner,” she admitted.
Users were horrified by the sinister addition to the prenuptial agreement and thousands of people commented on the post.
“Does he even have a lawyer?” one user asked. “I think any legal professional would tell him that such a provision is unprovable and actually undermines the entire marriage.”
“He wants her contractually obligated to repeat rape.” “It's absolutely horrible,” another agreed.
“This is all ridiculous.” What if he has COVID? Does he still get laid? Or what if you stay in the hospital for several weeks? Is he still getting sex?' another raged.
“He is incapable of getting married.” In real relationships there are illnesses, babies and aging parents. “Go away, this marriage is doomed because he can’t see the reality,” they stressed.
Others pointed out that the prenuptial agreement also prevented them from leaving the company because of the financial burden.
'[He’s not] “I'm just bullying her for sex but putting her in a position to believe that she can't distance herself and leave without losing her fair share of wealth,” one user pointed out.