Britney Spears urges her fans to speak to others with

Britney Spears urges her fans to speak to others with “pure kindness” in heartwarming posts

She has had to defend herself against critics and even her ex-husband in recent weeks.

And Britney Spears urged her 42.1million Instagram followers to speak to others with “pure kindness” in a sweet post Tuesday.

In addition to a rambling note that paradoxically began with a story about her attacking a bully when she was just four years old, the 40-year-old pop star posted a heartwarming video of a young girl speaking to a delivery man who appeared to be deaf.

Hoping for the best: Britney Spears, 40, on Tuesday shared a sweet video of a deaf delivery man chatting with a child in sign language as she urged her fans to fight cyberbullying by speaking with

Hoping for the best: Britney Spears, 40, on Tuesday shared a sweet video of a deaf delivery man chatting with a child in sign language as she urged her fans to fight cyberbullying by speaking with “pure kindness”.

In the cute clip, the delivery man stops while carrying a package to chat with the little girl via sign language on her stairs.

He beams from ear to ear after they were able to talk.

The beautiful bond between the two seems to have inspired Britney to urge her fans to take a stand against bullying.

“Cyberbullying of children with disabilities has increased…the children who are being bullied at school are helpless…it usually results in most children suffering but not really knowing how to ask for help!! !” She began a lengthy note post after the clip.

Cute: In the cute clip, the delivery man stops while carrying a package to chat with the little girl via sign language on her stairs.  He beams from ear to ear after they were able to talk

Cute: In the cute clip, the delivery man stops while carrying a package to chat with the little girl via sign language on her stairs. He beams from ear to ear after they were able to talk

Standing up for family: She opened her post by sharing how she beat up a bully who terrorized her cousin when she was just four years old, and joked she was a

Standing up for family: She opened her post by sharing how she beat up a bully who terrorized her cousin when she was just four years old, and joked she was a “rebel” with a “quick temper”.

She shared how her mother, Lynne Spears, once ran a daycare center and told her that “some kids are just mean…they were born that way!!! you can see it in her eyes.”

“Something we dare not say… ‘My child is hateful,'” she added, before recounting how a boy bullied her cousin, who was “like my sister or closer,” when she was just four years old.

Little Britney tried to defend her cousin by laying the boy on his stomach, grabbing his hair and “pinning his face up and down on the floor like you see it in the movies!!!”

“I know, so classy at 4,” she joked of her younger self. “You know… not a single teacher was mad at me… THEY WANTED ME TO DO IT!!!”

She added that she was “a hot-headed … a rebel … had a short-tempered temper,” though she noted that “I honestly have no idea why I was so protective of my family, I mean them for sure. Hell never protected me.” … JUST SAYING !!!’

Kindness: “I feel like this video conveys a hidden message…it’s the language we need to speak to each other…words and sounds can be really sensitive to our ears…that language is pure kindness!! !’ She gushed

Feeling judged: Britney also suggested that people should treat her like a child because of her innocent behavior

Feeling judged: Britney also suggested that people should treat her like a child because of her innocent behavior

But the video she posted seemed to offer a kinder way forward.

“I feel like this video conveys a hidden message…it’s the language we need to speak to each other…words and sounds can be really delicate to our ears…that language is pure kindness!!!” she gushed.

She urged her fans not to be fooled by those who want you to feel QUIET or CRAZY… or BITTER… OR ANGRY… embarrassed or by those who mock you [sic] !!!’

Britney also suggested that people should treat her like a child because of her innocent behavior.

“For a woman to remain fragile and tender in this world, even though she may be derided for being too childish, is not just a gift…it’s a blessing!!!” She wrote, adding that her fans are not of people, ” should be hardened” who make fun of their “innocence”.

She concluded by summarizing the video, writing that the little girl “had an incredibly BEAUTIFUL UNDERSTANDING with him without there even being any words.”

Happy couple: Days earlier, Britney had practiced her language of kindness by paying tribute to her husband Sam Asghari, calling him 'the love of my life'.

Happy couple: Days earlier, Britney had practiced her language of kindness by paying tribute to her husband Sam Asghari, calling him ‘the love of my life’.

Days earlier, Britney had practiced her kind language by paying tribute to her husband, Sam Asghari, calling him “the love of my life.”

The lovebirds tied the knot in a ceremony at their Thousand Oaks home a little over two months earlier.

Britney and her husband have recently had an argument with ex-husband Kevin Federline, to whom she was married from 2004 to 2007.

In recent interviews, he claimed that her sons Sean, 16, and Jayden, 15, have chosen not to see her for the past few months and even opted to sit out their wedding to Sam.

The former backup dancer claimed his sons avoided their mother in part because she censored nude photos she had posted on social media since she was released from her conservatorship.

Fighting back: Britney and her husband have recently engaged in a war of words with her ex-husband Kevin Federline;  seen in 2005

Fighting back: Britney and her husband have recently engaged in a war of words with her ex-husband Kevin Federline; seen in 2005

Hurtful: He claimed that her sons (LR) Sean, 16, and Jayden, 15, avoided their mother in part because of censored nude photos she had posted to social media in recent months

Hurtful: He claimed that her sons (LR) Sean, 16, and Jayden, 15, avoided their mother in part because of censored nude photos she had posted to social media in recent months