Is Your Relationship Suffering From “Mismatched Libido”? Dylan Alcott’s sexologist Chantelle Otten reveals how couples can increase their sexual compatibility
Celebrity sexologist Chantelle Otten has revealed how couples suffering from “mismatched libido” can revitalize their sex life.
Chantelle, the girlfriend of wheelchair athlete Dylan Alcott, told Nine Honey on Sunday that couples should make sex a priority, not a spontaneous activity.
“I don’t think making time for intimacy and sex sounds very spontaneous or very romantic, but it helps to say that sex or intimacy or connection is a priority.”
“The more you do these things, the more you want them too. I mean, who’s tired of having too many kisses and cuddles? Not many of us,’ she added.
Chantelle assured fans that it’s “perfectly normal” for couples to have different sexual desires, while stressing the importance of the person with a higher libido showing “empathy” towards their partner.
Dylan Alcott’s sexologist Chantelle Otten has revealed how couples can increase their sexual compatibility. (both pictured)
She also suggested that couples should shake up their “sexual menu.”
“Nobody wants to have sex with someone who criticizes, judges and pressures them. You have to practice understanding and compassion,” she said.
It comes after Chantelle told The Morning Show the main issues she deals with while in therapy with her clients are “orgasm difficulties”, “desire discrepancies” and how stress affects sex.
Chantelle told Nine Honey on Sunday that couples should make sex a priority and not a spontaneous activity
Chantelle assured fans that it’s “perfectly normal” for couples to have different sexual desires, while stressing the importance of the person with a higher libido showing “empathy” towards their partner
She said these things are “constantly brought up” by couples she meets in counseling.
“I think post Covid we feel like we are in a rat race and now the economy is changing too. You can see the impact it’s having,” she explained.
“So has the post-Covid mental health crisis [had] a very big impact on people’s sex lives,” she added.
Chantelle continued that “Pain, communication difficulties and [a lack of] Sex education in general” contributes to sexual problems for couples.
“Nobody wants to have sex with someone who criticizes, judges and pressures them. You have to practice understanding and compassion,” she said
Chantelle is pictured with boyfriend Dylan Alcott