I’m a man in his early 60s who needs advice on how to manage his end of life better and, above all, how to avoid making mistakes again. Ten years ago I left the mother of my two adult children to live with a woman 20 years my junior who struck me as a very serious person.
Charmed by her charm and somehow trapped in a sexually deadlocked relationship, I felt reborn through contact with this dynamic young woman who gave me back my lost youth. After the birth of our adorable little girl, she was quick to chide me for my “comfortable old side” which is happy by the fireplace with his baby, wife and dog.
And after apologizing to me in the strongest possible terms, she returned to friends of the same age. I won’t hide from you that my pride has taken a hit. Luckily, my kids have helped me get back on my feet and my youngest is there to tell me, “Dad, I love you,” otherwise I wouldn’t be able to get away with it. How do you find my full serenity?
Anonymous
Therapy would do you the most good, but since you may be reluctant, it would be interesting to force yourself into what is very much in vogue these days, which is “a quiet retreat” to a place where speaking is totally forbidden where you can go inside yourself to give your life meaning. We also offer some on social networks.