A single woman has revealed the bold statement she says to men after the first date to make them “want to marry her”.
Marina Neuman, who goes by @marinainmiami on TikTok, is looking for love and wants to get married, but she doesn't exactly tell her dates that.
Instead, she tells men she likes that she will “never marry them.” And to their surprise, the men always seem more interested and eager than they were at the start of the date.
The 26-year-old from Miami learned about the controversial tactic after watching Pamela Anderson's Netflix documentary Pamela, a Love Story.
“In a documentary, Pamela Anderson said: If you want to guarantee that you'll marry someone, tell them you'll never marry them and that you'll be married in six months,” Marina said in a now-viral TikTok video.
“She's on the trail because I've been on several dates in the last two months that just didn't work out.”
“So I just took a page out of How to Lose a Man in 10 Days and I'm telling the guys, 'You're lovely, I had a great time, but I'm really just looking for a date to a wedding.' .'Period and I don't think anything serious will come of this.'
She continued by saying that you would think that most guys would start “running for the hills” – but that's not the case.
“Rejection has something to do with her brain,” Marina said, adding that reverse psychology spurs her to try “more than ever” to win her over.
She claimed on a date that a man told her he would “never get married,” but she replied, “I'm someone's wife and they'll know in the future that I'm their wife.”
“I'm not about changing a man's mind.” This man told me how he really thought about how he thought he would want a family in five years. “I just told you I’m someone’s wife,” she said.
Marina Neuman, who goes by @marinainmiami on TikTok, is looking for love and wants to get married, but doesn't tell her dates. Instead, she makes a controversial statement.
The blonde beauty told FEMAIL how important it was for her future husband to “recognize her worth from day one.”
She also hopes other women understand and appreciate their own worth.
“I think it's so important that women never be afraid to break up with someone who doesn't appreciate them,” she said.
The video has since been viewed more than 1.3 million times, with many agreeing with her while others joked.
“In a documentary, Pamela Anderson said: If you want to guarantee that you'll marry someone, tell them you'll never marry them and that you'll be married in six months,” Marina said in a now-viral TikTok video
“They can’t stand hearing that they’re not qualified for the job,” one woman wrote.
“Men love a challenge,” said another, with a third adding: “I love how this isn't manipulation, it's literally just honesty, but then they manipulate themselves.”
Another wrote: “I've been proposed to over a dozen times.” The less you do, the more they want. “I’m always one foot out the door and they know it.”
Others said they proposed multiple times and were married earlier than expected.
'Truth. I told my husband to date other people. “We got married five months later,” one woman claimed.
“I always knew I didn’t want marriage or children. I always told the boys. “I've been propositioned five times,” said another.
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