Anaïs, 31, has had sex in many different places. She likes the forbidden, change, games of seduction… Her goal is not orgasm, but the desire and excitement of these moments…
I made love For the first time in the shower and the tap came loose. An incredible experience that still amazes me when I think about it. I had a lot of trust in my partner back then. We had been together for six months, he was experienced and knew how to calm me down. Our story didn’t last very long, but Sex with him made me want to explore my pleasure. I understood that it came from fantasy. We made love in every room of his apartment. After that relationship, I wanted that feeling to lastI wanted sex to continue to excite me. I learned that with him My desire grew faster when we did original things. I liked that the decor changed and that the atmosphere wasn’t the same between Thursday and Friday.
“It’s a dynamic, we go up very quickly and then we go down straight away.”
I then met Paul with whom I stayed six years. Together we had sex in many crazy places. My biggest memory is a dungeon. We visit the castles of the Loire. We had taken a guided tour until we saw a spiral staircase. We climbed onto it and locked ourselves in a tower. We rushed to make love. This kind of sex never lasts long, that’s not what we want. The excitement is too great to last forever. It’s a swing, you go up very quickly and then immediately go back down. With our hair down and a smile on our faces, we join the rest of the world while we get high. I love this feeling.
One evening we made love at his house, in the absence of his roommates. We knew they could come home at any moment, which made our embrace even more exciting. There is such a thing Eagerness not to be surpriseda tingling sensation in the stomach, a need to devour oneself very quickly. The idea of putting yourself in danger is nice, but you don’t want to be caught in the act. This time his roommates came home but we didn’t hear them, we were in the kitchen. The next day we were able to enjoy a few side glances. As long as there are no derogatory comments, I don’t care. It’s even nice, a little wink. It reinforces the idea that we’ve flirted well with boundaries.
“I always liked the bed, no matter how classic it may seem”
There was too the train toilet. Since the rails come and go, it’s not that bad. Because in addition to the little eye game that precedes it, the concept of prohibition, there is also the context and its immediate effect on our pleasure. I always wanted to read the desire in my partner’s eyes. Paul liked the provocative character forbidden relationships and it turned me on in no time. Everything happens in a split second. A blink of an eye and emotions attack us, the need to make love becomes urgent. It was never boring for us. And not even in a bed. Because the bed, no matter how classic it may seem, has always appealed to me. It’s not because I avoid the mattress because I like to make love everywhere. On the contrary, by relying on unlikely places, The bed looks like a real cocoonvery comfortable, very cozy, for longer relationships, with a more loving fusion, less animalistic. What is important to me is variety, because it awakens in me very strong sensationsnew every time.
“I’m not voyeuristic at all”
We also made love with Paul in a friend’s bathroom, in the evening. Hearing the party noise in the background while we’re having fun is crazy. At another bored party, We left the apartment and went to the fifth and last floor. We jumped on each other on the landing. And we were surprised by the neighbor. She told us: “There are places for these things!” We were a little ashamed. We too were surprised one afternoon in a garden without a fence. One weekend with Paul’s friends we were sitting on a piece of land in the country. We were on our patch of lawn and the homeowner saw us. We set off immediately. I feel bad when people surprise me. I’m not voyeuristic at all.
We had fun too on a campsite, between the tents, under the stars. As soon as we heard a zipper, we stopped. The goal is never to achieve orgasm, but rather to achieve it Share an exciting and timeless moment. Sometimes there is the same thing Feeling of frustration and it’s pleasant. We share foreplay so intense that once we’re in bed it’s crazy. After my story with Paul, I had an affair with a man who traveled a lot and lived in London. We arranged to meet at his place or in Paris, at my place, but also in Madrid, Brussels, Geneva. Four hours on the train for a short report, and we often left the hotel room early in the morning to go to the swimming pool. Once we had a long foreplay in a tourist spot in the middle of the night. It was very pleasant, the tension increased. Until the hotel room or the next meeting in Europe.
“I would love it under the table of a great restaurant”
I’ve also met men who were not adventurousit happens. I particularly remember one boy cursing in the room. I’m not judging, but I felt trapped. I didn’t know how to increase the desire, it didn’t fit into my seduction game, I couldn’t add my touch to arouse him and arouse me in return. For a long time I heard from my friends that they always made love in bed with terry towels for the sake of cleanliness. I’m not into that thing. I want unpredictable, stomach-churning sex. I really want to try out an airplane, even a planetarium. And my biggest fantasy would be under the table of a big restaurant, covered by the tablecloth. I want us to hide like children and for the customers and waiters to wonder: But where have these two gone?