We’ve all been through this. You know the “one” I speak of; where we fall in love with someone we KNOW we can’t have, but we still want them and we make some sort of internal decision to get them, hell or high tide.
Yes, being human comes with so many, many opportunities for error, doesn’t it? And nothing gives us more possibilities than love. Love, sweet love, it’s enough to drive a man crazy, don’t you think?
As we dream of the person we want in our lives over here, Moon Square Pluto steps back and laughs at everything. This is the transit that robs us of our sense of what is right and what is wrong.
We make all the wrong moves during this transit, and we do it believing we are doing the right thing. Of course. What we’re really doing is preparing for fall, and that fall will come in the form of realizing that who we love is definitely the one we can’t have.
On December 4, 2022, while the Moon squares Pluto, we might end up feeling stupid. And what’s worse, we won’t care because we’ll be so convinced that we’re getting what we want that we can’t pick up any of the clues that tell us this thing will never work.
Unrequited love is what we get today. The knowledge that while we feel like we are the champions of our love lives, we are really just wannabes; we want what we cannot have. Sooner or later we’ll get the hint.
The 3 Zodiac Signs Who Want Love They Can’t Have During Lunar Square Pluto on December 4th, 2022:
1. Aries
(March 21 – April 19)
Because you’re such a fiery person, when you decide you need something – or someone in your life, you go through with it. When someone lights a flame in your heart, you don’t take it lightly. You take it as a sign, and that drives you to action. As the Moon squares Pluto, you will be confronted with a sad reality that you must accept.
The one you want doesn’t want you back. It’s not because there’s something wrong with you! This is because they are already established in their love life and there really is no place for you there unless that person wants to destroy their own partnership for you, which they don’t.
You always have a hard time believing that something is “not available” to you when you see the world as your oyster. And it’s your oyster, Aries just not always. You can’t have that love, but there are others out there just waiting for you.
2. Scorpio
(October 23 – November 21)
December 4th brings you the feeling you love most: passion. You are overjoyed with love for someone in your life. And this moon, however, squares Pluto, making it an obstacle. What’s going on is you want someone who doesn’t want you.
It’s not because they boldly rejected you; it’s that you come across as too strong for them. You can’t help but be inflamed with passion; It’s your thing, and turning it on can be glorious for some. They promise all the nice things and yes you can keep them but the problem here today is that the person you desire so much for is not interested.
They have their life and it’s going very well for them without you in it. This is a cold realization for you as you tend to think that you can have anyone you want anytime.
3. Sagittarius
(November 22 – December 21)
It might be a thought that occurs to you today that one of the reasons you tend to want people you can’t have is because you really don’t want a relationship. Oooh, could this be true? Yes, it could, Sagittarius.
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You don’t do it consciously, but you do, and what you do is fall in love with unapproachable people who will eventually reject you and push you back into your comfort zone of self-pity and isolation.
Such games are common during lunar square Pluto, as this transit is all about confusion and twisted understanding. What we’re seeing here, Sagittarius, is a pattern: you’re picking someone who is unattainable.
You go out of your way to show them how much you LOVE them, and when they eventually cheat on you or reject you, you sneak back into “alone mode” where you find someone to fixate on. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Ruby Miranda interprets I Ching, tarot, runes and astrology. She gives private readings and has worked as an intuitive reader for over 20 years.