A first date can be irritating, even scary for many. You wonder if the discussion will flow, how to approach the other, and what questions to ask.
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According to dating expert Pippa Murphy, meeting someone is all about asking the right questions, and it can be harder than it looks.
This expert provides you with the best compatibility questions to ask to ensure success.
1- How was your day?
By asking this simple question you show interest in each other and it’s a great way to start a conversation.
Mrs. Murphy confirms, “If the other person is having a bad day, they will appreciate your empathy. And if, on the contrary, he had a great day, he would like to talk about it with someone who is a good listener.
2- What’s the best moment of your week?
This is a good follow-up question to the previous one to ensure some flow.
“The opening of the question allows the other to judge what he thinks that is “preferably”»says the expert.
This shows his appreciation for simple pleasures or great things.
3- How do you like to relax?
According to the expert, if she asks her date about her hobbies, this often leads to a dead end.
It is therefore better to put the question differently.
4- What’s your best TV (or music) discovery?
By asking this question, you learn more about each other’s cultural consumption habits and more about their interests.
Pippa Murphy adds, “People tend to identify with the characters they want to become.”
5- What would you like to learn this year? (or what area would you like to improve in?)
This question allows you to know a person’s priorities.
The specialist points out that the answer could instantly eliminate anyone who doesn’t seem to want to look inward or grow, which can be very discouraging.
You might also discover common interests.
– According to information from The Mirror