Abusing the trust of your followers is the biggest mistake a blogger or influencer can make. He knows it well Julia Ellebetter known as Desperate mom, who has landed at the center of a social storm in recent hours for years of telling a personal story that differs from reality. Nothing bad, considering it’s about private life, if it weren’t for the fact that Julia Elle has built her entire social history on this life by writing books (five) and sponsoring a popular face with thousands of euros has become.
Who is Julia Elle, desperate mom
Julia Elle – born in Turin in 1988 – is one bloggers, actress and author, famous on social networks like Desperate Mother. When she found out in 2016 that she was pregnant with her first daughter Chloe, she gave up her career as a singer and opened her YouTube channel, where she tells the life of an imperfect mother with irony and sarcasm. Her funny videos quickly go viral and Julia Elle is gaining popularity. Brand sponsorships for products for mothers and children are pouring in and the suggestion comes to publish her first book, Desperate and Happy. A Mother’s Secret Diary” and then to publish another four volumes, the last of the last year.
Julia Elle spoke about her difficult life in her books and on social networks sons: how she got up when she was left by her partner Paolo, how difficult it was raising a daughter alone and then the arrival of the second child, Chris, born after a crazy night with his ex. A child she raised alone, until she met her current partner Riccardo. Paolo has always appeared in his books and in Julia’s social videos. Although her story was over, the man was always present in her children’s lives, but in the last few hours the “castle” built by the blogger has collapsed.
The eruption of the fall
Some followers have noticed some discrepancies between the story Julia told Elle during a guest appearance on Come to Me by Caterina Balivo and what was instead told in her first autobiographical book. Speaking on TV, the blogger said that she was abandoned by her partner Paolo when Chloe was little (“She didn’t love me anymore,” she writes in the book), that she was forced to raise the child on her own and that she was abandoned a second time after the night of passion where Chris was conceived. In his novel Instead, Julia tells Elle that although Paolo broke her heart, the two became closer thanks to a party: “One glass too many and we had Chris. I swear. For years, the Desperately Mom community attacked Paolo for leaving her with two children, and he, tired of the accusations, spoke his truth on social networks.
Version by Paolo Paone
Paolo Paone, a music and digital producer who has worked with Francesco Facchinetti for years, confided to Instagram in a lengthy erupting message in which he revealed – surprisingly – that he is not Chris’ father and that he has supported his ex-partner in it To this I say: “I have never spoken out on social media, but today, considering that some aspects of my private life have taken on public connotations, I am compelled to make this statement in order to clarify and resolve some uncomfortable misunderstandings who see me involved against their will. So I decide to publicly answer, once and for all, the questions I keep getting asked that I would have been a defective father to my second child. Unfortunately, as much as I love Chris infinitely, I’m not allowed to have any rights over him because I don’t belong to him. biological fatherAlso coming around the corner was confirmation from the man’s sister, who defended her brother by telling a second truth: “For years you have been described as having abandoned a woman who was expecting a child, when in fact you are back have taken home your daughter’s mother who is pregnant with someone else because she is in trouble. You are a great man and father.”
Version of Julia Elle
Cornered by the media surge that swept her, mom desperately spoke her truth through some social videos accusing the former partner of failure and force: “I wanted to protect my children, but at this point I have to tell the truth. What I’ve told in my books is a version that wouldn’t put into anyone’s hands the complexities and hardships of Chloe and Chris’ story that entails. Chloe’s father was always violent and put us through hell until we managed to escape.” The blogger spoke of insults, shouting and even death threats and one key episode convinced her to leave him: ” knife from the kitchen to her throat and as I looked at Chloe I realized I couldn’t defend her anymore if she really did.
Julia Elle said the ex-partner “knew the book version was rosewater and he was okay with that, we agreed. The story of Chris is quite different: “He was born to another man who chose not to be a father. The kids know their story, Riccardo, my friends and family know everything.” Then the blogger posted an exchange of Messages with the ex from the past few hours, in which the man uses harsh words and controversy, but above all doubts, some followers keep the attention of the story high.