A woman dies. Feeling the weight of loss, the husband, in his grief, begins writing texts about her and posting them on Twitter. The posts went viral, filling hearts with tenderness through the poetic portrayal of the pain of a man now raising his daughter alone.
But it turns out that this woman, Ivy, died unaware that she was allegedly betrayed. And lover Luiza, upset by the cute posts that this guy, Bruno Baketa known as a widower on Twitter writes, decides to expose the situation. She feels betrayed and abandoned according to her, five months ago, shortly before his wife died, he swore eternal love and asked her to wait before separating. A classic.
Fans of the grieving boy were shocked: Luiza reveals that she received videos of him and that he is now posting the same videos as if he had taken them for his wife. She claims that addressing his pain on social media content has affected her mental health. I’m writing here from a skeptical perspective on humanity: it’s a cliché that he’s sending the two women similar or identical content.
“My ex gave me and the lovers the same nickname to avoid confusion,” says a friend who later discovered the trick. There’s more Fernanda stored on people’s cell phones as “Fernando Academia” than we can imagine. Bruno neither invented treason, nor does it deviate greatly from male rule. Of course there are exceptions. However, Bruno only seems to be the rule.
The difference is that he writes beautifully. It’s sweet, it’s sensitive. touch people But do women get involved with married men who are rude? There’s always a charismatic shell out there. And it usually takes time to realize it’s a facade.
A marital crisis is the classic excuse for someone who finds a way to justify cheating on someone. That might even be true—after the birth of a young child, who doesn’t get into a little crisis trying to stabilize their married life? Perhaps Bruno was in a passionate relationship with Luiza, who fell in love again. He may have done this to several women before—one has only to read his writings to Ivy and see likeminded people to realize that the romantic rhetoric resonates with audiences.
Audiences are disappointed for a number of reasons: The Widowed Man is a classic even in cinema, and women can step into a healing responsibility. Until some send messages of support and get a reply. Of course, the widowed man has the right to fall in love again. But the combo lover, random lines, and too much suffering are a little out of place.
It’s not just death that gives people the idea of not appreciating until they lose. Maybe that happened to Bruno. This is where the assumptions come into play: In everyday family life, life seemed boring to him and the lover touched him positively. After the death of his wife, guilt gripped him.
The longing gave way to the realization that life with her was good. Perhaps he regrets having enjoyed so little. Suddenly everything collapsed. And the ego of the likeminded, the millions of views, comes in. Fame feeds Bruno. He ignores Luiza’s feelings like a tractor.
Luiza feels bad. Ivy would be too if she knew. But only Bruno feels entitled to talk about his pain and feed his ego in this way. But amidst the great adult confusion staged by his father, there is a child who has just lost his mother. With life on the internet shattered after so many revelations before you could even read.
It is difficult for us to think of the other when we are in a personal situation full of suffering. But there is always someone who is more fragile and needs support and care. Bruno is responsible for thinking about the girl he gave birth to and keeping her out of trouble whenever she has access to the internet. If you haven’t thought about it before hurting women, do it now.
Oh, of course, there’s also a lesson for those who haven’t figured this out yet: you can’t believe in love just because it’s on the internet.
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