Cristiana Capotondi has become a mother, but contrary to what was assumed 24 hours ago, the daughter she gave birth to is not the current ex-partner Andrea Pezzi. However, despite the breakup, the man was by the actress’s side throughout the pregnancy until the birth. Both have shown in an exemplary manner how one copes with the end of a love and how fluid and at the same time functional the concept of family can be.
Usually when it comes down to it celebrities and from end of their relationshipswe are used to digs in social networks, Legal disputes reported to the pressjob interviews pejorative against his ex and somewhat questionable theater in the television rooms. But a different and healthier fate for couples breaking out is still possible and they are considering it to give us tangible proof of this Cristiana Capotondi and Andrea Pezziwho have always made confidentiality a core value of their life and relationship. In fact, in the last few hours we are talking about them and in particular about their originality and unusualness parental choice. In fact, it emerged from a note sent to Ansa by the Roman actress who the child she gave birth to is not the daughter of the former TV presenter, today an entrepreneur with whom he shared 15 years lifebut another man whose identity is not known. Capotondi revealed that her love affair with Pezzi ended before her pregnancy, specifically in the summer of 2021, more than a year ago, and specified that despite the separation, the man was still by her side throughout her pregnancy . News that has left many speechless, but which, if analyzed in more detail, gives us one virtuous example of how to manage relationshipsespecially after her epilogue, and how fluid the concept of family is now.
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Cristiana Capotondi’s note: “It was natural for me to seek Andrea’s protection and complicity”
It was July when news of the Pregnancy of Cristiana Capotondi. Back then, everyone assumed that the baby was carried by the mother in the wombRoman actresswho blew out 42 candles on September 13 was from Andrea Pezzibut a press release published in thehandle yesterday he broke that certainty. Through a note shared with the agency, Capotondi did it know that annthat’s the name of the girl She was born three days after her birthday, she is not Pezzi’s daughter, with which she revealed she had been separated for just over a year. “Andrea and I have been separated for more than a year and a half, but I asked him to be with me when my baby was born‘ reads the announcement, which continues: ‘When I found out I was expecting a child from someone else, my 15-year relationship with Andrea Pezzi had been broken for a few months“. The interpreter of Italian films such as “Night before the exams” and “Come on, you want me” wanted to put into context the choice, which for many seemed “quirky”, to be supported by the now ex-partner throughout the pregnancy and explained: “Still, it was natural for me to seek Andrea’s protection and complicity, our affection and bond remain so strong.“. Finally, Cristiana took the opportunity to thank the former partner “For taking us here by the hand“And” all those who, even if they know it, They respected our privacy and those who will choose to do so starting today”.
The words of Andrea Pezzi
And another note from yesterday, this time written and shared by pieces always on the site ofhandle. Inside the businessman, In addition to clarifying the reasons why the couple decided to keep their split a secret, meaning “to take all the time to quietly reorganize our lives,” he wanted to explain exactly how things went, saying : “When he earlier this year , Cristiana found out she was expecting a babyAlthough I am not the father, she asked me to stay with her during the long and delicate phase of her pregnancy. He wanted to protect such an important moment”. Finally, Pieces concluded the press release a certificate of appreciation for the ex-partner, to whom – he writes – “all my admiration goes”.
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A new (virtuous) model of husband and family
what happened in between capotondi and pieces, for it is undeniably a unexpected dynamics In both the world of starlets and the real world, it has predictably caused a media frenzy. In fact, many have shown their own through tweets or (unsolicited) comments disappointment and in a way astonish against the couple who – as so often in such cases – are accused of having started all this “petty fuss” just to get people to talk about themselves. Obviously, this is the opinion of those who don’t actually know the two who have always been known for their discretion and maximum reserve, and by those who remain anchored a stereotypical and one-dimensional image of man and more generally from family.
As it also points out Claudia DeLillo on the pages of Repubblica, the behavior of Andrea Pezzi frees us from “Character of the male monster, the pompous, possessive and arrogant inseminator who divides the ex between carrion and little good, destined to oblivion if not eternal grudges “to which we have relentlessly “surrendered and pinned”. Indeed has Pieces in his willingness to stay alongside a woman who is now an ex and has given birth to a daughter whose paternity he does not have, demonstrated that — always in the words of De Lillo — “Men who have learned the emotional alphabet and grammar to use itwho measure and share the female mental burden, who decide to resign who take off their armor practice tenderness without being ashamed of itwho have learned to call themselves fragile, false, imperfect, who know how to give and ask for help, “actually exist.
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Likewise, this story shows us how much now anachronistic be that model of “traditional family still defended with drawn sword in dark blindness to what he is an increasingly dynamic and fluid reality. Given constant news from Parents who owe the offspringout Stepfathers who abuse and mistreat and children doomed to witness incessant demonstrations of Domestic Violence until it’s “too late”, that’s clear now this family ideal à la “Mulino Bianco” does not exist and perhaps never did. So rather than sticking to how right or wrong it is for two exes to remain friends and even go so far as to raise an undivided child together, it might be time to broaden the concept of family and give their one for always giving priority to the only thing that matters within a family unit: the actual well-being of those who belong to it.
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