December is known as a festive month, when cities around the world are lit up and gatherings mark reunions with longtime friends and family members. But that’s not the case for everyone. For some people, this can be an emotionally difficult time that can trigger end of year syndrome.
Also known as “December,” the concept originated 40 years ago when researchers at the University of Virginia in the United States were studying the worsening of mental disorders at that time.
Psychiatrist Ariel Lipman, director of the SIG Residência Terapeutica clinic, explains that the societally imposed need to feel happy at this time of year can be a trigger for some people. In addition, traditional family gatherings at Christmas and New Year celebrations can be stressful or sad for a variety of reasons.
“This can happen, for example, because of a bad relationship with relatives or the loss of a loved one who is no longer present on the date,” says Lipman.
toxic positivity
The need to feel happy and grateful at the end of the year can have the opposite effect and cause anxiety. Those who don’t share this celebration spirit may feel disconnected from others or as if something is wrong with them.
“You have to understand that there is no obligation to celebrate at the end of the year or to be healthy. Everyone is unique and it’s okay not to join in the celebrations of others.”
nonachievement of goals
Fear can also trigger the famous goal lists, full of items that haven’t been completed on time in the year that is coming to an end, and those that make it onto the New Year’s list.
“When we think of a yearend party, we also think of a cycle that is coming to an end, which means it’s normal to be worried about the promises of the coming year and even sad that it didn’t come in the year which is now ending to fulfill everything you wanted,” says Lipman.
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feeling of loneliness
For some people, the next few days can be marked by an increased sense of loneliness, particularly for those living alone with no contact with family members. The psychiatrist explains that even people who are comfortable with their own company report feeling more depressed during the holiday season.
But the feeling can also be touched in those who live with family. Despite their physical closeness, they may feel emotionally distant from others.
“Feeling lonely at the end of the year is not uncommon, and contrary to what many think, it’s not just for people who live alone or have no family members. Even people with apparently wellstructured families can be affected by this feeling,” explains the psychiatrist.
Greetings to those who have left
Traditional endofyear celebrations can take on a sadder and more melancholy tone after the loss of loved ones. The longing grows tighter as the grief is relived.
“The situation will certainly get worse if it is the first Christmas or New Year’s Eve that a person renounces a person who has already died, which is natural,” comments the doctor.
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